why does he ignore me ?
Question
why does he ignore me ?
Answer
He isn't ignoring you in a way the cards can hand over — but the spread says the silence sits in the pattern, not in his feelings, and it points at a mismatch you can actually look at.
Past — The Fool, reversed: something started without a plan or a clear agreement. Not a promise you can point to, not even a firm yes — the opening was ambiguous, and that ambiguity is older than the current silence.
Present — Temperance, reversed: the channel is off-balance. One side reaching harder than the other, mixing of mismatched tempos — you're adjusting to a pace he never agreed to. Impatience, uneven exchange, a conversation that keeps missing each other's rhythm.
Future — Five of Swords, upright: if the imbalance continues, this tends toward tension and a hollow win — a conversation where someone walks away feeling they scored and nobody actually got closer. It's a tendency, not a forecast, and it depends entirely on whether the tempo gets fixed.
Two of the three are Major Arcana, so this is structural rather than a bad week; three of them point at the same element (fire and air), meaning the whole thing runs on action and words — what gets said, how fast, how much.
The cards can't tell you what he feels. What they can tell you is that the pattern in the spread is *imbalance*, not coldness, and imbalance is checkable.
Your move, within 48 hours: pull up your own record — the last three times he went quiet, and write down what you sent each time. Then look at whether he answers other people promptly. That's visible signal from his side, not his mind, and it's the one thing here the spread can't supply for you.
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