How does my ex see me?

Judgment: This reads less like someone still studying you and more like someone who has filed you under "heavy" — and what comes back is fog lifting, not a decision.

• Past — Eight of Wands, Reversed: the earlier version of you in their head was fast, loud, always in motion. Reversed, that momentum is something they remember as noise they couldn't keep up with.
• Present — Ten of Wands, Upright: the clearest signal here. What they carry of you now is weight — the emotional and practical load the relationship left behind, still on their shoulders and not set down. This is the card doing most of the answering.
• Future — The Moon, Reversed: under that, one of the distortions between you is thinning. Something you assumed about how they saw you was probably wrong in your favour of fear, and the real picture is simpler than the story you've been telling.

These are the cards' shape, not a report of his or her inner life — only behaviour confirms that. Cards can't tell you what they feel; they can tell you what to look at.

If the last few weeks show them initiating nothing but still answering promptly and warmly, then it lines up with the Ten of Wands: not indifference, a burden not yet put down. If instead the tone has gone flat and clipped and short, the Moon reversed is talking about the *you* in their head clearing up — the version of you they were carrying was fog, and it has thinned.

Action, within 48 hours: ask the one person who actually sees them how their last month has gone — a mutual friend, a sibling, anyone with current contact. Not a test of them, and not you describing your side; just ask how *they* are. That is the one thing no card can hand you, and it settles the Ten of Wands question better than any amount of guessing.

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