How have his feelings toward me changed

Something that felt easy between you has gone quieter and less certain, and the pull now runs toward talk that doesn't quite turn into action. The cards can't tell you what he feels — they only show the shape of the change, which you can verify yourself.

The three-card draw (Three Card Spread):

• Past — Four of Wands, upright: there was a stretch that felt like a real arrival — easy, warm, somewhere he was happy to be around you. That wasn't nothing; it was the baseline this is measured against.
• Present — The Sun, reversed: the gloss has come off. Reversed Sun isn't hostility; it's warmth that has gone dim or gone unacknowledged — good feeling present but not landing, brightness arriving in someone's head rather than in the room.
• Future — The Magician, reversed: the next move belongs to words and initiative, and that's exactly where it snags — something gets said that implies more than it delivers, or a promise arrives without a date on it. Under that pattern, the pull toward him is driven by what he *projects*, not by what you can confirm.

Where it crosses your side: two of three cards are Fire and two of three are Major Arcana, so this isn't a small irritation — it's about how the two of you are positioned, not about a scheduling slip.

So: if the thing you check below comes back showing him following through on what he says, then the dimming is more about appreciation than about feeling, and the quiet has a fixable cause. If it shows warmth without follow-through — plans made and not dated, enthusiasm that doesn't survive the week — then the Magician reversed is describing the road you're currently on, and what you're reading into it is that projection, not a loss.

Your step, inside 48 hours: pick one specific thing he has said he'd do or suggested doing in the last month, write down the date he said it, and put a tick next to it on Sunday — not as a test, and not to raise with him, just as a record. Then read your own last three weeks in the same column. That log is the thing the cards can't supply, and it's also the only honest answer to "has it changed."

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