Is there a card that just keeps finding

No. There's no card with a pull on you — the deck doesn't know who you are.

Why the feeling is so convincing

• Every card has exactly the same chance of turning up: with 78 cards, one specific card lands in a three-card spread about 3–4% of the time. Nothing in the deck is biased toward you, your situation, or your story.
• Each draw starts from fresh randomness that nobody can predict or steer, so an identical question never repeats the same spread. The result is genuinely not determined by the question.
• What repeats is memory, not the deck. When a card lands on something you already worry about, it's filed and retrieved; when it's ordinary, you don't keep a record. So "it keeps finding me" is really "I keep remembering it."

What would actually settle it

The only honest test is a log, not a shuffle. If a card really does keep appearing, write down the card and date for the next ten pulls, before you interpret any of them. Then count. Most people find the repeats thin out fast, and the ones that survive are usually the cards they already had on their mind.

If you'd like to see the randomness rather than argue about it, I can draw a single card right now from the same deck and we can look at what came up.