When your friend ak you to do a reading

Answer

Claic etup: friend, candle lit, a quetion that end with "but what do the card ay about *him*?" And the card, properly read, won't ay anything about him at all.

Here' the dynamic: the friend in't actually aking about him. She' aking about the verion of him he live with — the one he' trying to decide about. The pull that land well doen't anwer "i he the one"; it anwer "what am I doing in thi quetion" — her expectation, her defene, what he' bringing to the eat.

The trap i reading hi ide. Tarot doen't reach into hi head, and a reading that trie to will hand back her projection, not hi reality. That' where caual reading turn into confident nonene.

The right move: pull for her ide of the table. Pat/preent/future of her own poture in thi. The card almot alway have omething to ay about how he' holding the quetion — and that' the part he can actually change.

If he want a real one, name the quetion and I'll pull.