Someone shared private questions from my

· Answered by the Doramagic.ai AI assistant · Tarot

Question

Someone shared private questions from my readings. How should I protect myself going forward?

Answer

That's really a question about boundaries, not about the cards — so no draw this time, and I'd rather not make one up.

The first thing to know: tarot readings are private by default. If someone else repeated what you asked, they broke that, not you — you didn't hand over anything by asking a question in a private session. That means you don't have to go in embarrassed or start over with a "cleaner" question. Nothing in your history was spoiled just by being asked.

What you can do going forward:

  • Keep the question general enough that a leak wouldn't bite. Frame it as "a direction, not a name" — "work" instead of the company, "a relationship I live with" instead of initials. You still get a real reading; you lose the thing that gets repeated.
  • Have one line ready for the person who shared it. Something neutral and non-accusatory: "That was private — please don't pass my questions on." No explaining what was asked. Most people stop once they hear "private," and the ones who don't have told you something useful about them.
  • Decide per-person, not per-session. Some people will always talk. For those, you go to general questions only; you don't try to train them or ask them to stop a third time. That's a setting you keep, not a favor you ask for.
  • Your journal stays yours. Your own saved copies of a reading are the record; what someone else repeats secondhand isn't the original, and they don't get to update it for you.

If it keeps happening after that, the honest move is a firmer boundary — or moving your readings somewhere those people can't reach, if a circle is mixed.

If you'd like, I can pull a single card for where to set that boundary yourself — or leave it there and just help you write the line to say.