How does the guy I’ve been talking to on
Question
How does the guy I’ve been talking to online feel about me?
Answer
He seems genuinely interested in you as a possibility, but nothing about him has become concrete — and if that stays true, this goes nowhere on its own. Cards can't read his mind, so this is what the spread points at, not a report on his feelings.
- Past — Ten of Pentacles reversed: the "settled, serious" frame isn't in place. Whatever ordinary-life picture either of you imagined around this isn't actually being built.
- Present — Ace of Pentacles upright: there's a fresh, real seed of interest. Something concrete about you appeals to him — this is the beginning of something, not a feeling already in decline.
- Future — The Chariot reversed: if the pace stays exactly as it is now, it doesn't travel. Two wheels, no driver: warm messages, no motion.
So: if the next couple of weeks contain one real thing on a real calendar — a day, a time, an actual call — the Chariot's reversal eases and this starts to go somewhere. If the conversation stays warm and stays on nothing that can be scheduled, the seed stays a seed, and that's what the reversal is pointing at rather than bad faith on his part.
Within the next 48 hours: put one concrete small thing on the table yourself — a specific day and time, low stakes, easy to say no to. Not to test him, and not as a confession. Just to see what comes back with a time attached.
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