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For a healthy adult, RSV is generally a cold, not a big deal. The risk in your house is the newborn visiting Sunday — and what you can actually do at home is reduce the chance the virus reaches her. This guide stays in kitchen, hygiene and communication; it does not diagnose, change medicines, or pick a dose for anyone.

1. What you tried vs. what works better

You tried: called it "just a cold" and hugged everyone.

Tonight, with what's already in the house (masks, tissues, hand soap, spare bedroom):

• Symptomatic partner gets the spare room for the next 2 nights if you can swing it. Their own towel, their own glass, their own toothbrush. Door doesn't have to be closed all day — closed at night is enough.
• Tissues at cough height: a box in the bedroom, the bathroom, the kitchen. Cough/sneeze into elbow or tissue, bin it, wash hands.
• Hand soap at every sink: warm water, 20 seconds of rubbing, dry on a clean towel. Keep a bottle of alcohol-based hand-rub at the spare-bedroom door for "I forgot to wash" moments.
• Masks: the partner wears one when leaving the spare room or sitting with anyone else. You wear one if you're going in and out of the spare room a lot.
• Ventilation: open a window in shared rooms for 10 minutes, two or three times a day. Outdoor air is the cheapest air filter.
• High-touch wipe, once a day: door handles, light switches, bathroom tap, kettle button, fridge handle, TV remote, phone screens.

Tomorrow (Saturday) — set up Sunday before it arrives:

• Talk to the newborn's parents — see the script below. They may have a rule you don't know about (no visitors in the first week, no kissing the baby's hands, etc.).
• Decide together: if partner is still coughing by Saturday night, do they skip the room with baby, mask up, or do you postpone? Write it down so it isn't renegotiated at the door.
• Triage the school kid and the elder/sibling: if either is sniffly on Saturday, they are not in the room with baby on Sunday either.

Sunday morning, in this order:

1. Has the partner been cough-free for 24 hours? Yes → visit as planned. No → partner masks, no face kisses on baby, hand wash at the door, partner stays 2 m from baby where possible.
2. Is anyone in the house sniffly today? Yes → they stay home or stay in a separate room; they don't hold the baby.
3. Anyone with fever, new cough, or runny nose Sunday morning? That person doesn't enter the room with the baby. Move the visit outdoors (porch, garden) if the weather is kind, or reschedule.

24-hour success looks like:

• Partner still has a cough but you have a routine that contains it.
• The kitchen counter, the door handles, and the spare bedroom are the three places the routine actually runs.
• The newborn's parents have a yes/no decision by Saturday night that everyone agreed to.
• You have not promised a cure, and no one is taking antibiotics or cough syrup "just in case."

2. Avoid list — within the limits you set

• No diagnosis from me. I won't tell you it is or isn't RSV; only a test can, and the partner may also have one of many viruses that all spread the same way at home.
• No medication changes. Don't start leftover antibiotics — viral coughs don't respond. Don't give OTC cough/cold syrup to children under 4 (no proven benefit, real risks). Don't push paracetamol or ibuprofen past what's already on the label.
• No mystery powders or online prescription meds. Elderberry syrup, megadose zinc, ivermectin, "natural immunity" blends, antibiotics ordered online — none of these shorten a viral cough or protect a baby.
• Don't kiss a newborn's face or hands if you have any cough, sneeze, or runny nose, even if it feels rude. Kiss the top of the head with a clean face and clean hands, or skip until next visit.
• Don't share cups, towels, phones, or soft toys between the symptomatic person and the baby.
• Don't "power through" the visit because the family is already driving over. Cancel, postpone, or move it outdoors — your job tonight is to be the one who says it.
• Don't cook for the baby's parents if you're coughing. Even reheating food in your kitchen spreads droplets onto plates and surfaces. Cook another day, or have a non-symptomatic person plate.
• Don't smoke or vape indoors. Smoke irritates airways and makes any respiratory infection worse for everyone in the house, especially the elder.

3. Red flags — when to stop DIY and get clinical/urgent help

For the partner (an adult with a bad cough) — these are signs to contact local emergency services now:

• Cannot speak in full sentences because of breathlessness.
• Lips or fingertips turning blue or grey.
• Becomes drowsy, confused, or collapses after struggling to breathe.
• Coughing up blood that is more than a streak.
• Sudden breathlessness, or a sharp pain when breathing in.
• Chest pain, sweating, or feeling clammy along with the cough.
• A wheeze that goes quiet while they still look unwell.

For the newborn (niece, when she arrives or after a visit) — these are signs to contact local emergency services now:

• Under 3 months with a fever (≥38°C) or just "not right."
• Stops breathing for a moment, or goes blue/grey around the lips.
• Will not feed, or is floppy and hard to wake.
• Fast or hard breathing — sucking in at the ribs or neck, grunting, flaring nostrils.
• A non-blanching rash (press a clear glass firmly on it: spots that don't fade).

For the school kid or the elder/sibling, if they pick up the cough:

• The elder: new confusion, off their feet, "not themselves" — don't wait for a fever.
• The kid: any of the adult red flags above, or breathing fast at rest with a fever.

If in doubt, you don't diagnose — you call. Tonight's job is the routine. Tomorrow's job is the conversation. Sunday morning's job is the decision.

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Three scripts you can copy and send:

To the newborn's parents, today or tomorrow:

> "We'd love to see you Sunday. Partner's been coughing since Wednesday — nothing dramatic, but I want to ask what would make you comfortable with the baby. Are you happy if we ask everyone to wash hands at the door and skip face kisses? If partner's still coughing by Saturday, would you rather we postpone, or have them mask and stay out of the room?"

To the partner, tonight:

> "I know it feels like a cold, but we have [niece] coming Sunday. I'd like you to have the spare room for two nights so we don't put the baby at risk. I'll bring you tea, soup, and tissues. Can we make that work?"

To the school kid or sibling, if they start sniffling before Sunday:

> "If your nose starts running by Sunday, we'll do a video hello instead of holding the baby — same visit, just on the tablet."